Choose to Have Power Over Things
Choose to have power over things rather than people.
When we try to control people, it does not turn out well. You can't possibly. You end up driving people away. It's not healthy.
But when you choose to have power over things, power over things that you can have control over, well, that's when your focus can be lined in.
That's when you can make an impact. That's when you can make a difference.
So choose to have power over things and not people. When you tend to have control over your things, then what people do doesn't bother you so much.